Disable the tilt LSP by default for "Starlark" files (#51709)

This matches how the `buck2-lsp` works for that extension.

Fixes https://github.com/zaucy/zed-starlark/issues/18

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assets/settings/default.json

@@ -2168,7 +2168,7 @@
       },
     },
     "Starlark": {
-      "language_servers": ["starpls", "!buck2-lsp", "..."],
+      "language_servers": ["starpls", "!buck2-lsp", "!tilt", "..."],
     },
     "Svelte": {
       "language_servers": ["svelte-language-server", "..."],